This is a weird one to write.
(Itโs funny how honesty works.)
Lately, the posts that have been really raw, just coming from a place deep within my soulโฆ
โฆtheyโve drawn the best response.
When I use Sunshine and Olly as art, by saying the things that are desperate to get out of my body, itโs created conversation.
(Best case scenario, really.)
And those posts are NOT hard to write.
The energy leaps out of me, through my fingers on the keyboard. Thereโs a compulsion to the process, those days.
A physical need.
This one, though, Iโve planned to write.
Planned to share.
But itโs much trickier.
Because it involves my hopes and dreams, not just my inner turmoil.
The truth is, this is not news to people who know me IRL.
(Or some with whom Iโve been in direct digital contact.)
But it is not something Iโve shared publicly, even though Iโve been cooking it up for a few months.
After 19 years here in Taos, my family and I are planning to move.
To leave the only home my kids have ever known.
Weโre headed West.
To Southern California.
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I donโt know why typing that out is so hard.
Maybe it makes it feel more real?
Raises the stakes?
Probably not.
Probably, itโs just the inner fear that comes out when one makes such big moves.
But given what Iโve shared here over the past 16 months, it really shouldnโt come as a surprise.
Iโve written about career changes, and hinted at the massive gentrification taking place in Taos.
(All over the West, in many cases.)
Back when I used to travel all the time, and Taos was a smaller place, I could imagine living here forever.
All along, though, it felt isolated.
Living in the quiet, with nature an intimate part of your daily life, is amazing.
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Itโs given me and my family a platform to become our best selves.
But living far from everywhere, forever, is a bit extreme.
Plus, I grew up at the beach, and have lived 1000 miles from one since 2005.
Fuck that shit.
Give me some ocean.
ASAP!
So thatโs what todayโs short post is about.
Making moves is often about getting your mind right.
Understanding the larger playing field, and your position on it.
Sometimes, even though itโs super-scary, we have to make decisions on faith.
On belief.
Optimism can be hard to come by, in 2024.
So if you can find any, and you see some light up ahead, maybe head that way and see whatโs there?
Catch you next time.
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